This just barely still being child life month I thought I would point my readers towards a very timely entry from Micropreemie Twins from a week ago. The post doesn't mention child life at all, but it is about a kid in a hospital having surgery. I wouldn't be surprised if that hospital has a good child life or therapeutic rec or creative arts therapy or whatever you want to call it department because what 5 year old kid says that their surgery went "GREAT!"? Can I have my next 2 surgeries (whenever they are) at that hospital? My usual response is that I feel like death.
It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Fun*Run Time
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Pet Therapy at Dayton Children's
This is my last post in my series of weekly child life videos commemorating March as Child Life Month. Of course I saved the best for last. There is nothing better then a dog in a hospital :-)
Past Posts:
- Go back in time at the Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario
- Closed circuit TV at the Mount Sinai Kravis Children's Hospital
- Medical play & hospital bingo at the Johns Hopkins Children's Center
- Language use and giving choices, Sherry Schlagle from Cooper University Hospital
- The Adventures of Bernard, the Hospital Puppet (pre-op teaching) from Le Bonheur Children's Medical Center
- Procedural prep, Courtney Hubbard from All Children's Hospital
Monday, March 29, 2010
The Orange on the Seder Plate
As researched by my Rabbi
In the early 1980s while speaking at Oberlin College Hillel, Susannah Heschel, a well known feminist scholar, was introduced to an early feminist haggadah [the book containing the story of Passover] that suggested adding a crust of bread on the Seder plate, as a sign of solidarity with Jewish lesbians. Heschel felt that to put bread on the Seder plate would be to except that Jewish lesbians and gays violate Judaism like hametz [foods forbidden during the holiday] violates Passover.Happy Passover everyone!
So at her next Seder she chose an orange as the symbol of inclusion of gays and lesbians and others who are marginalized within the Jewish community. Each orange segment had a few seeds that had to be spit out--a gesture of spitting out the homophobia of Judaism. She writes:
"Somehow, though, the typical patriarchal maneuver occurred. My idea of an orange and and my intention of affirming lesbians and gay men was transformed. Now the story circulates that a man said to me that a woman belongs on the bimah [where the leader of Jewish services stands to lead the congregation in prayer] as an orange on the Seder plate. A woman's words are attributed to a man, and the affirmation of of lesbians and gay men is erased. Isn't that precisely what's happened over the centuries to woman's ideas?"
Saturday, March 27, 2010
What's Said in the Group...
stays in the group. Unless it's about me and I don't use any names that is :-)
I really need to decide if I'm changing or not.
Cheryl, you've already changed.
I've noticed a lot of changes in you over the last couple of months.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Hurtful Words Part 1
Something came up in class yesterday that brought up one of the most hurt situations I have ever experienced. This happened roughly 5 months ago, and at the time I had opted not to make it public on the internet. You have to be careful what you put out on a a non-passworded blog, even though I choose not to divulge my last name and thus am not googable by my name (I check every so often). I have not thought about it since the incident because I think it is poinless to ruminate on a person who will never change.
In class I said something ultra brief but then decided to send an email to this professor, whom I trust, going into great detail. This time I am choosing to post it here, as I would appreciate multiple opinions, and also thought this is perfect of BADD.
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The second time I took psyc 403 [child psychology], my adjunct professor (a full time school psychologist who adopted a son years ago who has significant psychological disabilities) started in on how Drs are keeping premature babies alive earlier and earlier. In doing so they are taking advantage of parent's vulnerability, he says, for their own personal professional gain (so that they can publish the case study) and NOT looking out for the best interest of the child. He also believes that if there becomes prenatal testing for psychiatric disabilities it should become the norm to perform preimplantation genetic diagnosis. Society would be saving those babies from a life of constant suffering, not just physically, but because of how pervasive ableism (he didn't use that word) is in this society. Forget about working to change society, just kill off those people. Reintroduce eugenics [my interpretation, not his wording].
I was sitting in my chair in class that day. It was very unprofessional for him to use those words and in hindsight I wish I'd gone to the psyc dept chair. I was too depressed to figure that out at the time. Do you think it is too late? Offensive language can come in many forms and and this is much more hurtful to me then calling me a cripple, invalid, spaz, retard, a wheelchair (what, am I not a person?). 0-60 in 10secs flat.
My interpretation of what he said is that I shouldn't have been sitting in that room; that I have nothing valuable to contribute to society; that my parents should have killed me off; that people like me and his son should have been aborted. I mean, really, I have a double curse if you want to view me that way.
My life is certainly hard, but so are a lot of other people's. I asked him if he had also adopted a typical son would he love that one more? He said that he had not said that babies should be aborted or that he does not love his son [he didn't] and that I went too far in assessing what he had said. How could I not have? I'm not going to change his opinion, some people are beyond help, but people in these types of professions [professors] should know when to keep their mouth shut. I almost feel like I should address this issue now, but I almost feel like 5 months later the moment has passed... Should I?
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Aimee Mullins ON DISABILITY
IT'S EVEN CAPTIONED! Found through the blog Born Just Right, and then a few days later on Ryn Tales Book of Days, and then Terrible Palsy. It seems to be floating around mommy bloggers lately. I have no comments, this needs none; it should speak for itself.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Hope & Recovery
Monday I stopped by Susan's blog and found out that Hopeworks Community, a blog that is new to me, posted a Voices of Recovery series that is great and worth checking out, so I thought I would give them a plug! Go over there! Now! :)
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Child Life's Been Around Awhile...
at Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario in Canada. This video is from 1978. I think some of it got cut off, as is often the case on you tube, but usually there is a part 2. Can anyone find it?
This post is part of my Child Life Month 2010 series. Past Posts:
- Closed circuit TV at the Mount Sinai Kravis Children's Hospital
- Medical play & hospital bingo at the Johns Hopkins Children's Center
- Language use and giving choices, Sherry Schlagle from Cooper University Hospital
- The Adventures of Bernard, the Hospital Puppet (pre-op teaching) from Le Bonheur Children's Medical Center
- Procedural prep, Courtney Hubbard from All Children's Hospital
Sunday, March 21, 2010
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Thursday, March 18, 2010
Therese & Cheryl ON CREATIVITY & MOOD DISORDERS
Oh how I hate transcribing videos, but since I'm not responding to the whole thing I thought I would.
I was so afraid to take medication 20 years ago when I was first diagnosed with depression because I thought that it would take away from my creativity. I thought that I would no longer be able to write. But I agree with so many doctors that have said not only does it make my concentration better, it makes me a better writer. It's just that the subject matter sometimes isn't death and doom and despair. It can sometimes be about children and friendship and all the graces that I experience on a daily basis.
... medication isn't the end of creativity. It's not the end of being an artist, a writer, an actress, it's the beginning. It's the beginning of a life--of a better life. Of a treatable mood disorder. So I guess I just wanted to encourage all those artists and creative people out there that treatment isn't our enemy, it's our friend, and it works on the side of life.
Cheryl you idiot. What do you think you're doing (or not doing)? YOU SAID IT YOURSELF, you like being functional, you hate when your head feels so heavy that your blog's filled with crap. I printed this out and saved it and stapled it to the front of your chart so I could find it in a flash. WTF are. you. doing? Get dressed for starters...Not that my current therapist would ever speak to me like that (my last one would) you'd laugh hysterically at the thought if you ever meet her, but I am henceforth giving her permission to do so.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Chicken or Egg?
There was an article I read awhile ago, Too Much Internet Linked to Depression. Hmmm... I am definitely addicted to the internet. Ask this shrink or the last one. I also have a predisposition to pretty bad depressive episodes. Ask this shrink or the last one. Or this psychiatrist or the last 2. Or my physiatrist. So... which came first? The chicken or the egg? Do I go online because I'm depressed or does being online so much make me depressed?
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
A Summary of Closed Circuit TV Programming
This post is part of my Child Life Month 2010 series. Past Posts:
- Medical play & hospital bingo at the Johns Hopkins Children's Center
- Language use and giving choices, Sherry Schlagle from Cooper University Hospital
- The Adventures of Bernard, the Hospital Puppet (pre-op teaching) from Le Bonheur Children's Medical Center
- Procedural prep, Courtney Hubbard from All Children's Hospital
Monday, March 15, 2010
I Totally Get It
There was this book that came out in the early 90s, Colt, by Nancy Springer, about a 10 year old boy with spina bifida who is forced into a therapeutic riding program and ends up falling in love with the horses. On a tangent, the other day I was getting in the shower and started wondering why it's "therapeutic" riding and not an adaptive sport. Blind skiers, wheelchair track stars, murderball players, are all involved in "adaptive sports" not "therapeutic sports". Are we crip riders not athletes too?
Friday, March 12, 2010
What Odd Things Do You Do Because of Your Disability/State of Mind?
I was getting into bed last week sometime when I started thinking about this odd thing that I do. I set up my laptop with a Grey's Anatomy DVD (that I know the words of, but that's not the odd thing), make sure it is at the right volume, and then immediately roll over and pull the covers over my head. You'd think I'd want to watch it, wouldn't you? Not so much now that I know the words, but it's not about the words, or even the particular show. I don't know what it is about falling asleep with the TV on, but there is something to it. I was talking to my shrink last week about how I really think there is some biochemical reaction to the glowing screen, but laptops don't flicker, and we think it would have something to do with the slight flickering of old school TVs.
[image description: my pony blanket. my bed never looks that neat...]
I digress though. The odd thing I wanted to talk about was not that I know lines of GA episodes by heart, not that I've been so tired lately from having to get up @ 8am, even on non-school days (I can't wait until the day that my biorhythms readjust to my new schedule), not that I sleep with my computer in my bed (my mom did for YEARS before she got married, so I don't think that's odd at all, glad I have a double bed), but the fact that I sleep with the covers over my head.
It all started freshman year, 7 years ago, when I went through a pretty bad bout of depression. I was unmedicated by direction of my then treating psychologist, and was just in a bad place. One of the results of this, as with most clinically depressed people, was that my sleep schedule was totally off. I was up late because I went to a party school, so I was generally sleep deprived all year to begin with, and a lot of the time slept all day. It was not unusual for me to sleep 14hrs straight. One time I slept until 4:30pm. That really screwed me up. Not to mention how often I passed out in class.
What does that have to do with anything? Often my sleep would be disturbed in the late morning by the bright sun shining through my window. So I would grumble, pull the covers over my head, roll over, and go back into my deep sleep. I was not someone who slept like this before, but the habit has stuck, and now I cannot sleep otherwise, depressed, manic, or stable.
So what quirky habits have you developed due to your disability/ies? I know I'm not the only one.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
SPAM CASSEROLE
In a bit of a departure from my regular posting, I found this several weeks ago from my gmail ticker and I want someone to try it and tell me how it is. I can't try it, SPAM's not kosher. Here's the link Apparently they have a whole catagory of SPAM recipes.
---------- Recipe via Meal-Master (tm) v8.02
Title: FRENCH FRY SPAM CASSEROLE
Categories: Main dish
Yield: 8 servings
1 pk Frozen french fry potatoes,
-thawed (20 oz)
2 c Shredded Cheddar cheese
2 c Sour cream
1 cn Condensed cream of chicken
-soup (10 3/4 oz)
1 cn SPAM Luncheon Meat, cubed
-(12 oz)
1/2 c Chopped red bell pepper
1/2 c Chopped green onion
1/2 c Finely crushed corn flakes
Heat oven to 350'F. In large bowl, combine potatoes, cheese, sour cream, and soup. Stir in SPAM, bell pepper, and green onion. Spoon into 13x9″ baking dish. Sprinkle with crushed flakes. Bake 30-40 minutes or until thoroughly heated.
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Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Johns Hopkins Children's Center Child Life Specialists Talk Medical Play & Hospital Bingo
This post is part of my Child Life Month 2010 series. Past Posts:
- Language use and giving choices, Sherry Schlagle from Cooper University Hospital
- The Adventures of Bernard, the Hospital Puppet (pre-op teaching) from Le Bonheur Children's Medical Center
- Procedural prep, Courtney Hubbard from All Children's Hospital
Monday, March 8, 2010
Quotes From Me
Last Wednesday I had 2 good ones. To set up the first one, I have a standing lunch every Wednesday with a friend of mine that used to come to OOO on Wednesdays but now has a Wednesday night class. I mentioned to her at least once before this that I should get off my butt and get something to drink so that I could take my meds. Then I say,
"I need to get up. I need to take them. I'm really starting to like being functional again."
"What were you before?"
Man, I'm such a... [pause while I think of the word] spaz
Friday, March 5, 2010
Disability Rights Haggadah
I was in Hillel Wednesday as I have a standing lunch with a friend, when 2 people came in to have a meeting with the director about Passover, which starts the Monday after our spring break. Apparently we are having an official Seder the first night (I will be at my parents) and then for the second night he is paying for food so that people can hold their own Seder that is most meaningful to them. We can do them however we want. He says "I can find you a haggadah for whatever you want. Feminist, LGBT, traditional, chocolate themed, he even offered to buy the Animated Haggadah if a group of people want to watch that and then chow down.
He was saying he could find a text to match any theme, so I looked at him and said, "Can you find a disability rights haggadah? Because we have this whole 'free our people' thing going on." [my free our people drawing is to the left] I was just trying to be tongue and cheek, I did not mean for it to be something taken seriously, but he did. He said if I wanted to host a disability rights seder he would look. I must have had a look of shock on my face. I mean I know plenty of Jews that would be down with it, but students?
Well I looked into it later that day, and I really think there is nothing. There are the picture cards Ricki's Mom made for her and the PECs haggadah below, but nothing about rights.
So I think if I am going to do this I am going to take from here and there. I need to look at my ragged edge anthology for some poems about freedom. I can adapt things from the Labor Seder, such as using the poem on page 12 as a jumping off point for a rewrite. The system is broken. I need to take a look at the human rights haggadah and find the UN declaration of the rights of people with disabilities. The 30 Minute Seder is also on my list.
He wants us to think of what was meaningful for us when we were children, and to me, the best part of Passover was "quarters." No, not the drinking game, but my Grandpa would get a roll of quarters and sit all of the kids at the table and we had to guess a number between 1 and 100 for a quarter. So I think I would take the multiple choice questions from the back of the PECs haggadah and use them to chuck quarters at people. It's a good opportunity to talk about inclusion.
I don't think I'm going to hold a seder this year. Creating a haggadah from scratch is pretty labor intensive and I don't think I had enough advance notice, but this is definitely a project I want to undertake and complete. So what are the 10 plagues of ableism? I may borrow from the labor seder, such as un/underemployment.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Fact Sheet on The Lorraine Sheehan Health and Community Services Act of 2010
I've been meaning to post facts about the alcohol tax increase bill making its way through the Maryland legislature and it just dawned on me that I could upload this word doc onto my blog through scribd. Feel free to print and distribute. The number of organizations involved is WAY out of date. my friend tells me that the list is now over 70.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Today is Spread the Word to End the Word Day
My post today is two videos that I feel say it better then I could
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
March Is Child Life Month
Throughout the month of March (every Tuesday) I am going to be profiling different child life departments and techniques in honor of Child Life Month. A lot of people don't know what Child Life Specialists do, and I thought this was the perfect time to bring awareness.
In July I posted a video profiling Courtney Hubbard at All Children's Hospital in Florida. That video focuses on procedural prep.
In November I posted a video about Bernard the hospital puppet from Le Bonheur Children's Medical Center in Memphis, TN focusing on pre-op teaching.
For more information on child life, visit the child life council.
Monday, March 1, 2010
A Letter From Mike Ervin
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